Category: Spiritual Growth
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Self-Control: The Quiet Strength That Doesn’t Clap Back

This post is part of the 9-part series: “Faithful Fruit.” You can read the full series here. Have you ever had one of those moments where you were completely justified in reacting—but something in you said: Don’t. Not like that. Not this time.? It happened to me recently in traffic. The kids were in the Read more
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Gentleness: The Strength to Stay Soft

This post is part of the 9-part series: “Faithful Fruit.” You can read the full series here. Have you ever noticed how gentleness rarely gets the spotlight? It’s not usually the first thing people see. They notice confidence. Charisma. Efficiency. But gentleness? That takes a little more time to reveal—and even then, it’s easy to Read more
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Faithfulness: When You Stay, Even When It’s Hard

This post is part of the 9-part series: “Faithful Fruit.” You can read the full series here. There was a moment during Squadron Officer School that still sits with me. We had just completed a grueling obstacle course. I was bruised, sore, and completely spent. I went home aching, and I woke up the next Read more
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Goodness: The Quiet Courage to Stay Aligned

When I think of goodness, I think of integrity. Not just the kind that gets praised, but the kind you carry quietly, even when no one would blame you for letting go. On my last week at my previous job, I stayed. I worked. I submitted final vacation vouchers. I corrected payroll mistakes. I wrapped Read more
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Kindness: When Someone Cares Without Being Asked

This post is part of the 9-part series: “Faithful Fruit.” You can read the full series here. There was a season when everything felt like too much. My husband was deployed. My daughter’s school was calling almost weekly—I was constantly having to leave work to care for her. Around the same time, we learned my Read more
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Patience: When the Wait Feels Like a Test

This post is part of the 9-part series: “Faithful Fruit.” You can read the full series here. I used to think I was patient. I really did. I could hold my tongue, wait my turn, nod through delays like a good adult. But what I’ve learned—what I keep learning—is that biblical patience isn’t about staying Read more
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Peace Isn’t Passive

Faithful Fruit Series #3 explores the concept that Peace Isn’t Passive. This post is part of the 9-part series: Faithful Fruit: A Reflection Series on Living What the Spirit Grows. You can read the full series here. I used to think peace meant everything was calm. That I’d finally reached a place where nothing rattled Read more
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Joy Isn’t Easy—But It’s Strong

Joy Isn’t Easy—But It’s Strong This post is part of the 9-part series: Faithful Fruit. It wasn’t joy. It was survival. I still remember the heaviness of that rainy morning. My husband was deployed. I had just moved back to Alabama with our daughter and was adjusting to life as a single parent again—but this Read more
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Love: Not Soft, But Strong

Love isn’t always soft. Sometimes it’s carrying more than you think you can, showing up when no one’s watching, and staying when it would be easier to walk away. This week’s reflection explores the kind of love that doesn’t just feel—it chooses. Read more
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Stronger Than You Look: Training for the Battle Inside

External strength may impress others, but inner strength is what sustains you in spiritual warfare. The Strength You Really Need As we come out of Memorial Day—a time when we pause to honor those who carried burdens we may never fully see—I think a lot about what strength really looks like. We spend so much Read more
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When Silence Speaks Louder: The Power of Saying Nothing

Inspired by Matthew 27:11–14 There’s something strange—but sacred—about choosing not to speak. In Matthew 27, Jesus is standing in front of Pilate, facing accusations, betrayal, and a violent death. People who once cheered for Him are nowhere to be found. The crowd is shifting. And when Pilate asks Him a direct question, Jesus… doesn’t answer. Read more
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Power, Purpose, Proess: Why the Fight Is Fierce

The enemy isn’t attacking you randomly—he’s targeting your power, your purpose, and your proess. It’s Not Just Life—It’s Warfare Some seasons feel personal.The hits come too fast, too close, and too deep.You start asking: Why me? What did I do? Why now? I remember 2017, when I had just moved back to Alabama from North Read more
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My Mind Is My Weapon

This isn’t a pity post—it’s a real one. In the middle of counseling sessions, relocations, and trying to hold my family together across state lines, I’ve come to realize how easily I’ve surrendered my peace without even noticing. This is me learning to guard my mind like the weapon it is—with grace, with worship, and… Read more
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Finding My Voice (Out Loud)

Last week, I shared a post titled Why I’m Here: My “Why” and the Work That Chose Me. Writing it felt like exhaling—finally putting words to what’s been stirring in me for years. But even after I hit “publish,” something kept rising. Not a contradiction—more like a deeper layer. I realized that what I wrote Read more
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Bruised Love: The Strength of a Soft Heart

Scripture Focus:“For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son…”— John 3:16 People often ask me how I stay so kind. At work. In hard conversations. Even when someone’s being rude or unfair—there’s often a look of confusion behind the question:“How are you still so nice?” The answer isn’t simple. Read more
